Does it hurt while you are in love?
One thing fix in your head! The hymen is nowhere associated with virginity. Yes, it is the most misunderstood part of the human body and all kinds of myths associated with it. I heard so many times people gossiping about the breakage of the hymen and having a bloodstain during first sex/first night after marriage. It is almost a matter of pride for many. However, you need to understand one thing hymen is a very tender and thin layer. Moreover, any tearing or stretching of body parts due to aggressive sports activity liking horsing, swimming, etc. Sometimes, it even wears down naturally with time. So, don’t associate this with virginity and to avoid pain during first sex you can try spending more time in foreplay.
Surprised! but yes foreplay is the key. if you spend some time relaxing each other body and its reaction it becomes very each to adjust with the mood. One thing you always need to keep in mind that even if you have watched multiple videos suggesting experimentation, please try and enjoy it slowly the first time. You can try below to get the hang of the mood
Hugging and cuddling
So how long should foreplay last?
It completely depends on individual choice and preference. But to tell you a secret sometimes women enjoy foreplay much more than actual banging. So don’t rush to enjoy every curve and every push so that it becomes a memorable experience for both of you.